Sunday, October 25, 2009

Gotchya Day

Four years ago today we were Blessed to have four lovely girls become a part of our family. Wow, four years have gone by fast. The girls have become young women and the younger two can speak very little Ukrainian. The older two can still speak and read and write it but have forgotten some.

Today we all went to have Mexican food for dinner. This has become their favorite food. The meal was great and the time spent sweet. We ate, laughed and enjoyed the day together.

After dinner we spent the rest of the day playing with the horse. We rode laughed and just enjoyed each other.

Our girls are 18,16,14 & 12. They like to be with us, even when their Friends are around. They would just as soon spend time with us as to be any where else. We are so Blessed to have these beautiful girls. We have many Friends who have children their age who would rather be any where than with the family. I am not sure who is Blessed more, them or us,but I know one thing, God has put us together.

Cat ran this week with a hurt hip and still managed to finish in the top 1/4 of the field she ran against. This week coming is the last event and then they start the sectional series. She has done better than anyone would have thought and we are very proud of what she has done.

I am truly a Blessed man. I have a wife who loves me and children who look up to me. I pray I can live up to the challenge God has placed before me.

I pray God leads me in all I do and shows me what I need to do next to be the man they all need to see. I love them dearly and would do anything to help them see the love of Christ.

Thank you Jesus !!

Thursday, October 22, 2009

Phillies Win

The Philadelphia Phillies, last years world series champs, are World Series bound again!!!! After stomping the LA Dodgers they will likely meet the New York Yankees for a turnpike series.

Man it's good to be a Phillies fan !!!!!!!! Go Phillies!!!!!!!

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

A POEM

THE BEST POEM IN THE WORLD!


I was shocked, confused, bewildered
as I entered Heaven's door,
Not by the beauty of it all,
nor the lights or its decor.
But it was the folks in Heaven
who made me sputter and gasp--
the thieves, the liars, the sinners,
the alcoholics, the trash
There stood the kid from seventh grade who
who swiped my lunch money twice.
Next to him was my old neighbor
who never said anything nice.
Herb, who I always thought
was rotting away in hell,
was sitting pretty on cloud nine,
looking incredibly well.
I nudged Jesus, "What's the deal?
I would love to hear Your take.
How'd all these sinners get up here?
God must've made a mistake.
And why's everyone so quiet,
so somber? Give me a clue."
Hush, child," said He, "they're all in shock.
No one thought they'd be seeing you."


Judge NOT!

Freedom

This is a good thought.


You cannot legislate the poor into freedom by legislating the wealthy out of freedom. What one person receives without working for, another person must work for without receiving. The government cannot give to anybody anything that the government does not first take from somebody else. When half of the people get the idea that they do not have to work because the other half is going to take care of them, and when the other half gets the idea that it does no good to work because somebody else is going to get what they work for, that, my dear friend, is about the end of any nation. You cannot multiply wealth by dividing it." ~~ The late Dr. Adrian Rogers ~~

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

FIRST DAYS IN IVANCIV

During the first weekend we needed cleaning supplies and a fan for our room. The rooms at the hotel had windows put it was still warm and it took until after 11 pm to cool down. We enlisted the kids to help us find just what we needed. They took us to there enclosed shopping mall. It had the capability of having about 8 - 10 stores in it. There were 6 operating and a lady who sold flowers at the entrance. It was two stories tall and about 4,000 sq. feet of store space with about the same in area to walk around to get from store to store. The middle area was where they set up vendors during the winter who set up outside in warmer times.

Our group of children had grown from our three girls and the girl who could interpret to ten with other children who just tagged along. As a group we entered these little stores and the shop keeper looked at us with horror. Later we found they were afraid the kids would steal things from them.

We quickly found the things we needed and headed back to the hotel . We bought soda's for everyone and when we got to the room we opened up a 3 1/2 lb. bag of mixed candy and passed it around. It made it one time around and was empty. We also had a dozen banana's we had bought for the girls and they got eaten within the first 15 minutes. The fan got hooked up and the rooms got cleaned by everybody doing something and in no time we were all watching pictures I had brought with us on our laptop.

As you could imagine they were enthralled with the pictures of our house and the pets. Then we all started taking pictures of each other and then the wrestling started. Next thing I know someone is banging on the door asking us to hold it down. With that we took them back to the orphanage and played there for a while.

Word of the candy spread quick. I was surrounded with kid's wanting candy. I went to the nearest store and bought about a dozen packs of gum and started handing it out to all of them. This started something that we did for the rest of the trip. Candy or gum or ice cream, they were looking for it when we got there.

Monday, October 12, 2009

Meeting the girls

On the first day we were in Ivanciv we checked into our room. We were late getting there and were to meet the girls at 2:30 pm. We opened the door to the room and pushed our bags in and left to go to the orphanage.

The next 15 minutes were very anxious for me. It was like a cross between that first date, asking my wife to marry me and our wedding . I thought all of the what if's, what if they didn't like me, what if I didn't like them?

As we pulled up to the orphanage I noticed a girl coming through the bushes ( we would later find this was a short cut for the kid's) towards the building. As I got out of the car she came to see us and I saw it was one of our girls. She saw wife and a huge smile came across her face. She gave us a hug and ran into the orphanage to get the other girl who was there. We found out we had missed the Orphanage Director by a few minutes and nobody knew if or when she would be back. Protocol was to see her first and give her some paper work and then she would bring the children in for a formal introduction. Instead we walked over to the town stadium located next the orphanage and sat in the stands with these two girls and tryed to talk to them through the interpreter. They were shy and only gave yes and no answers. A few minutes later the Director came up and we all went inside where we did it the right way.


As we headed in the two girls ran off to the school to get the other girl and bring her back. Upon her return the director gave them a pep talk about there lives would be different and that sh had met us in America and we were good people etc. She excused herself and we had a few questions asked back and forth. The youngest one was antsy and couldn't sit still. The oldest one looked as though she was going to burst out of her skin but they remained reserved. We decided to go to the market area and see if we could find some banana's. The girls came with us to show us the way. As we were walking there one of the girls gave wife a hug. That started what became love fest. Another one hugged me and it was one hug after another from then until we left them to go back to the hotel 5 hours later.

After getting a box of banana's we went back and the director brought the kids into the great room and told them who we were and what we were there to do. Most of them smiled and for the first time I felt awkward. It dawned on me that all these kids wanted to go home and some had the why not me look. The fruit was enjoyed and we saw that our girls all had a servants heart as they passed out the fruit and the candy we bought for all them.

The time flew as the girls wanted us to see there beds and the few things they possessed. They each gave us a little trinket as a gift and we gave them some things we brought for them. They would bring their Friends over and introduce us to them through the interpreter.

At about 6 pm the interpreter announced she had to leave and go back to Kyiv. We were there with only a little girl we had met in the states to help us talk with them. The girl and her brother were going to be adopted by another couple we knew. The girl had been to the states and had been taking English lessons. She could speak some and spent the remainder of the weekend helping out. One of the first questions the girls asked was what do you want us to call you. I asked what do you want to call us and they answered Mama and Papa.

That was settled and in time it was time for us to go leave as the orphanage locked down at 9 pm. We left and felt as though we walking on clouds. These children were all so loving and ours seemed to need it the most.

After cleaning up the rooms enough to get by we called it a night about 11:30 pm. At about 12:30 I was awakened as wife was shaking me and I heard someone coming in the door to our room. I looked at him and he was bobbing back and forth, obviously drunk, and I said hay!! He said something I didn't understand and backed out into the hall and closed the door. It took me a minute for it to sink and I got up and stacked the bags against the door so no else could get, key or no key. When I woke up the next morning I looked around to see if we had any other visitors.

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Hilton Hotel Ivanciv

While we were in Ukraine we stayed at a little hotel in Ivanciv. This was the town where the orphanage was. The best way to describe this hotel is to imagine a double wide mobile home with another one stacked on top of each and about two long. It would shake as the trucks went by but after a week you didn't notice. The hallways were up and down and crooked. It left the feeling of being tipsy when walking down it.

On the first level there was a few rooms and the rest were used for hotel needs ie; laundry room etc. The first floor also had a restaurant. It had a small eating area inside and another one on a patio. Inside had about five or six tables with four chairs each and a small bar that seated five or six more. Every time we went there you could cut the cigarette smoke with a knife. We ate outside every time, even when the weather got cool.

The owner of the restaurant was not friendly and never smiled once while we were there. The waitress was the same. No expression, no reaction, no matter what. They had about four or five things on the menu and the best was a steak platter that had a cubed steak covered with grilled mushrooms, peppers and onions and a cheese with potatoes. It came with a salad made with green peppers, onions, squash cucumber and a light oil & vinegar dressing. It was good but it was the only thing that was.

I lost about 20 lbs. while staying there. There were no super markets as we know them.The food stores were about the same size as our gas stations. They offered a wide variety of food but in small quantities. Bread, for instance was brought in twice a week. If you wanted a loaf the day before it came in you had a choice of take it or leave it. We always left it and remembered the days it came in. There was not a lot of choice in foods and we ate a lot of bread ( which was very good) with tuna we brought with us. As long as it lasted. Then we bought chicken cooked there and made sandwich's, but that got old after a week or two. Our biggest treat was to go into Kyiv every Saturday and eat at McDonlds or TGIF's.

Now , all that being said, there was great food in Ukraine. We only found it when we moved back into Kyiv at the end of our trip. We enjoyed a few meals that were great with Friends we made in Ivanciv but the restaurants were non existent while we were there.

The hotel was filthy. No other way to put it. When we checked in the room looked as it would if you had people stay in it and didn't clean it for months. Which is what it was. They give you clean sheets and bed covers and all the dirt you want. The bathroom was so bad I was afraid to use it. We spent hours cleaning it in order to make it acceptable.


We had the deluxe suite which included a towel each, a small bar of soap each, and two wash cloths for three of us, no matter how long you stayed . There was two rooms, one had a bed dresser and amoire. The other had a sofa that pulled out to make a bed and a chair, Coffee table and end table and a book case that also served as a closet/ storage area. On the coffee table was a huge ash tray with a couple of cigarette butts left. Under the end table was an empty wine bottle. Each room had a window. In the entryway you had four doors, one to the left had the sink and toilet. The next to it had a shower. Straight ahead was the bedroom and to the right was the other room. It was set up so each room could be rented separate and you would share the bath.

Friends or ours who also adopted three girls from the same orphanage called it "The Hilton Hotel Ivanciv". They had been there, in the same room, about six months before us. We thanked them for leaving the dirt.

It was interesting to me that the girls and their Friends who came by to visit were in awe of this place. The girls wanted to be able to spend at least one nite there before we left.

We were just living it up at the Hilton Hotel Ivanciv !!

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

PHILLIES WIN !!!!

All is well here. The Phillies won their third straight division title and are heading into the playoff's. So far, the Philadelphia Eagles look strong and will have their starting QB back this week. Alas, Penn State continues to have trouble beating Iowa but they looked good last week.